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Banbury
Mayor Tony Mepham led tributes to Paul describing him as
a great friend to the town.
Chamber
of commerce president Chris White said: Paul was larger
than life, very kind and very thoughtful. More than anything
I loved his enthusiasm and his smile which got everyone
motivated.
He
raised lots of money for Macmillan Cancer Relief and helped
people with learning disabilities because he really cared
and wanted to put something back.
On
a personal level you could really talk to Paul. He was very
interested in you, very thoughtful and considered in what
he said. He could be very forthright, but was always genuine.
He had the most positive attitide to his cancer, grabbed
it by the horns and got on with it. He wanted to live life
to the full. Shaun Jardine of Brethertons founded
the influential Banbury Business Breakfast Club where Paul
was a regular. He said: Paul was a special person.
He was one of the first to volunteer to help any cause,
be it arranging a big fundraising project or standing outside
a supermarket for an hour to help out on a flag-day collection.
He
could relate to everyone. He could see the best in everyone.
Those who met him liked him for his sense of humour, kindness
and his ability to listen.
Fellow
Rotarian Bernard Goodchild said: Paul became a friend
I was very fond of. Even though he had a lot to deal with
in his last few years he was always there, even after a
busy day, for whatever was being done, a carol service,
tin rattling or helping out at the Gateway Club.
He
organised three cyclathons to raise funds for Macmillan
Cancer Relief and did a tremendous amount to help other
people. He was energised morning, noon and night and gave
his utmost all the time.
He
was determined, committed and immensely popular. Rotarians
with one voice said how great he was and how bravely he
had maintained that courage to the end.
Paul
did have a soft vulnerable spot inside and needed the reassurance
of peoples approval. He wanted to feel he had made
a contribution in life and he had.
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known as Bith to his friends, is the inspiration for the endeavour
which will see the men cycle 420km along the River Nile to
raise money for Macmillan Cancer Relief, a charity that became
very dear to Pauls heart. Top Formula 1 drivers and
a variety of pop stars have already pledged their support.
Never one to let adversity stand in his way, Paul set out
on a series of adventures with his pals after his brain tumour
was diagnosed. The gang was nicknamed the Lardies because
of their burgeoning waistlines.
Friend
Shaun Jardine said: Three-and-a-half years ago Paul
was told he had six months to live. We asked what did he
want to do that he had not done. He told us he had never
been to Dublin, to Landsdown Road to watch rugby, never
been skiing and never been stoned, So we took our
sick friend to Dublin where we watched a glorious match,
USA v Dublin, Courcheval where Paul skied slowly down a
mountain and Amsterdam where remaining ambitions were satisfied.
Paul was a great bloke, was a fitness freak and did
loads of work for charity including masses for Macmillan
since he was diagnosed with cancer. The Lardies have decided
we should do something as a tribute to him hence the cycle
challenge. Hes our motivation. He was part of the
Lardies.
The
Lardies taking up the tour are Shaun, 41, of Clifton, Dave
Walley, 39, from Banbury, Steve Long, 40, of Bloxham, Brian
Auld, 45, of Bloxham, John Cochrane, 42, of Bodicote, Toby
Bonner-Davies, 38, of Banbury and Clive Hawkins, 39, of
Bloxham. The men are to embark on the seven day cycle ride
along the famous Egyptian waterway in October and hope to
raise at least £50,000. And to add to the challenge
they are looking for a three person bicycle which they plan
to take turns at riding and use to get as much publicity
for the cause as possible. Shaun said: Were
hoping someone will give us one or make one for us. Everyone
can have a go and when theyre not on it they can ride
their normal bike.
Any
event we can highjack to collect money, well be there.
Dave Walley is the managing director of Arena Event
Services which supplies seating for pop concerts and all
major sporting events so we can get into anything. We are
hoping to ride the bike around Silverstone on the day of
the British Grand Prix. F1 racing drivers Jonathan
Palmer and Johnny Herbert and European golfers have agreed
to be photographed on the bike, as have Bananarama, Andrew
Ridgley of Wham and George Michael.
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